I was sixteen years old. We had just moved to Massachusetts from my hometown in Arkansas. To cheer me up, my mom thought she'd take me to this movie everyone was raving about. That movie was Top Gun and it changed my life!! That smile, that arrogant charm made me a believer. I started a serious crush on Tom Cruise that lasted decades. When I met hubby, everyone teased him that he'd come 2nd in my heart. When he was in Memphis filming The Firm, I tried stalking him (don't worry, we did live in Memphis and I never could find him). Then, the unthinkable happened. Tom Cruise made public his weirdness. I laughed off what I could, but it became too much, even for me. Hubby says, "Finally, after almost 20 years, I made it to the top." He knew if he waited long enough, he'd become 1st in my heart. Everyone is in shock. I am too. I am over Tom. Of course, I'm now without a fantasy honey. I can't think of anyone to replace Mr. Tom Cruise. I can think of a lot of hotties, but not one to be a honey. Does this mean I've grown-up? I hope not.